How to Get Your Revenge

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“Living well is the best revenge.”

— George Herbert

How far would you go for a revenge?

When someone strongly offended us, our mind goes through a series of ideas on how we could get back at them and mentally testing which of these would work.

Studies show that people who have undergone revenge wanted to make themselves feel better and for some, getting even is sweet...  On the other hand,  the actual question is “what happens after the heat has died down as anger fades away?”

You’ll now see the gravity of what you’ve done and eventually realize what you shouldn’t have. Instead of diving head first into a sea of negative thoughts about another person, focus on yourself. Be rational, be logical - be the better person. Don’t forget to stay classy at all times.

Here are some ideas to make your revenge without becoming the bad guy

  • Achieve a massive success - Whether it’s having a billion net worth, having a million of followers, or simply being fit, obtain it. Haters celebrate your failures and your success drive them up the wall. It’s more than a slap in the face.  It makes them realize you are living a life they could only dream about. Whenever you feel like giving up, think why you started; it’s effective.
  • Steve Martin - “Be so good they can’t ignore you” - They are waiting for the moment where you will cave in and let anger eat you up. They are waiting to see you break down. Don’t. Never let them have that satisfaction. Instead, smile. It’s your best weapon. It throws them off guard, gets them confused, and tells them that you are strong and they cannot intimidate you. Continue to be the caring and well-mannered person that you are. Share your kindness with them – it’s a sign of intelligence.
  • Surround yourself with people - Not just with any people, but with your friends and family. Bigots live by the saying, “Divide and conquer”. They will do everything to make you feel helpless and alone. Don’t let them always remember that you have your friends’ back and the support of your family. Constantly talk to them about your issues – it’s healthy for the mind. More importantly, build more relationships. The more people you have, the stronger it will make you feel.

"Revenge is not worthy of you. If you concentrate on revenge, you will keep those wounds fresh that would otherwise have healed."

—Adeline Yen Mah

You don’t have to live your life seeking revenge. But if you feel like you can’t go on without doing something, these are good ways to start.

Who deserves one?

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Goodluck!

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